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गुरुवार, 30 अगस्त 2018

मन की परीक्षा

कभो कभी कुछ पल जुदा  होके भी अपने लगते है
कभी कुछ लोग पराये  होकर भी अपने लगते है
सफर एक न हो  फिर भी मंज़िल तक पंहुचा देते है
कभी कच्चे रास्ते  पक्की नीव बनदेते है
कभो पक्के रास्ते  नीव कच्ची कर देते है
छोटे छोटे कदम कब बड़े बन जाते
ऊँचे ख्वाब कभी रह रह  दिवार बन जाते
सफलता की कुंजी नहीं, सफलता कोई दवा नहीं
सफल होना किस्मत नहीं
थोड़ा सी मेहनत  सा ख्वाब की तमिल है

बस यु ही खड़े  थे अरमानो के समंदर में
न जाने कब तूफान आया हम बह चले। .

मन की परतों को न छूना
बहुत से राज दबे है
ज्वालामुखी सोया  रहे तो ही अच्छा है
लावा प्रेरणा बने तो बहुत अच्छा है।

मेरे प्रेम की गहरायी न पूछो
मेरे  मन की परीक्षा न लो
सच्चाई  मेरी आँखों में है
अपने सवाल का जवाब मेरी ख़ामोशी में ढूंढो
तुम्हारे हर लफ्ज़ में बेवफ़ाई  है
मेरी मोहर का इंतज़ार न करो।


परेशां रहने की आदत हो गयी  है
सब कुछ  पहले से ज़यादा है अपनों के सिवा
 लेकिन  रुख में रूखापन है अपनो के बिना
याद भी आती है साथ नहीं रह पाते है
एक इधर दूसरा मुँह उधर कर चले जाते है
कभी प्रतियोगिता कभी जलन में पड़कर
दूरियां बना लेते है नाज़ुक डोर है
थोड़ी मेहनत कर पक्का करना तो होगा ही








बुधवार, 1 अगस्त 2018

Embrace --HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY

We can embrace ourselves and things related 

in the world of globalization it is very convenient thing to inquire about anything from anywhere and about anyone:-

  • Are you a person who can tell  the weakness of immediate family members? NO  than, why for country /community /religion? 
        In case YES:- please get the gossip from non harmful topics.

  • Are you always aware what is going on in the heart of your family members ? NO ..than how can you speak and say anything without  proper information and spread the wrong message and information regarding country/political situation/demographics/life/history?
        In case your answer is YES: time to wake up you are unconsciously sleeping 

  • Do you miss the food that you ate and fun  and loved in childhood ? YES .than why you forget to tell the best thing you did in your land and people no matter where  you are you miss it?
            In case NO :- try to uplift  the life of at least one child as you know the value of                       having difficult childhood

CONSIDERATION
  • You visit so many places in the world and there must be the place you feel best in your country and u saw that for free ....Cheers ! charity to the world economy 
  • we are famous for beautiful homes ,mandalas ,mediation(pooja/ajan/prayer etc) we can relate ..Cheers!we are following it and spreading the peace
  • Saving money ..Cheers ! we taught security 
  • N..number of fine dinning but miss the street food Cheers! bhaiya is perfect for masterchef 
  • I visited other countries and now I am more respectful to my house helper,plumber,electrician,mason,parlor,talior...etc Cheers! Skip life skills are most important
  • fixative serendipity(JUGAD)..............Cheers ! we are best in this 
  • I am not good enough...Cheers! no sympathy plz ..read the heading and apply for country/community/religion
  • We clean home before guest visit/festivals/parents arrival..Cheers! we are not hoarders / our moms are marie Kondo
  • We have to visit the places adopted the culture... Cheers! future generation have best of the world
  • Facts,fun,arguments ,collision ..whatever Cheers ! Hum sb bhai behan hai (except one) ..bhai hai mera
  • 15 august, 26 January and  2nd oct .Ladoo and sweets Cheers! u still have sweet memory 
  • Scolding kids,Ankhen dikhana aur marna Cheers! parampara ...bas keh diya na nahi toh..ek ..
  • Listening to world songs and dance moves ...Cheers! dance on desi beats with nagin dance

GoGo.. google

  • google the place you live in your country ..See you missed so many places 
  • biggest grocery importer and exporters 
  • read history books by Indian writers 
  • number of person from your country and their contribution to world.
Promise 

  •  no garbage talk 
  • factual and true information spread
  • respect the country the day you landed 
  • participate in the solution problems are known to everyone

Happy Independence day 3 weeks  before so you embrace and collect the right information and try to make it beautiful Spread the right information it will make a difference 





शुक्रवार, 20 जुलाई 2018

रशां रहने की आदत हो गयी  है
सब कुछ  पहले से ज़यादा है अपनों के सिवा
 लेकिन  रुख में रूखापन है अपनो के बिना
याद भी आती है साथ नहीं रह पाते है
एक इधर दूसरा मुँह उधर कर चले जाते है
कभी प्रतियोगिता कभी जलन में पड़कर
दूरियां बना लेते है नाज़ुक डोर है
थोड़ी मेहनत कर पक्का करना तो होगा ही 

how, I learn Crochet

Hi friends
I was also a beginner one day in the field of crochet but once I learnt, I feel that the world is endless . I love to do variation and making new patterns and style .Is not that I am always successful ,intially the stitches looks so messy and untidy I always forget the stitches but stiking on one type of stitch made my path easier ,by practice and taking small project making them successful is the key .Intially better to take small project rather than bigger one .The best time to learn is during your pregnancy..the coming baby make you enthusiastic all the time you to love to see and make the small things.

Yarns-http://www.yarnstandards.com/weight.html
Hooks - http://crochet.tangleweeds.com/hooks.html
Measuring gauge -http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6mp_NamiI7A&feature=channel
Lets Start -
Yarn over(yo)-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BXzB_Ss1jYM
Fondation Chain (fc)/Chain stitich-(cs) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OtmOEzm_OXQ&feature=channel

Basic Stitches
Turning chains- While completing the row the extra chain is to be made then turn the material. Usually it is like --.sc-1 ch ,hdc-2 ch ,dc-3 ch ,trc-4ch
The right side (RS ) the side shown outside ,wrong side(WS ) side which is inward
Slip Stitch(sl st)-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWRdeseB2gc
Single crochet (sc)-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OqhaQQajt0U
Double crochet(dc)-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o1txJLRPfuE&feature=channel
Half double crochet(hdc) -http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxA2osb5Qfk&feature=channel
Triple crochet (tc)-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i4xplEBGowg&feature=channel
Double Crochet Edging-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mgjkdw3vsAs
Single Crochet Edging-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QMNcCDzVoao&feature=related
Tassel-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_15F1dSnY6Y
Button holes-Button holes -http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bbHdqS18WfA&feature=PlayList&p=3F145FD5C4D8E083&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=29
Seam -http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zead-e6no4U
Fringe -http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TOlfYc4d9nk


Lets try more

Increase (inc)-Working in more then one stitch in the same stitch
Decrease(dec)-Merging the number of stitches
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9gJNgMUtas&feature=related
Make a circle -http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eayNzAgZMUY&feature=related
Single crochet decrease (Sc2tog /1sc dec)-- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EI7Nq3LUNc0
Double crochet decrease (dc2tog/dc dec)-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nVmD9y1S3-0&feature=related
Double crochet increase (dc2tog/dc inc)-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sxwqTkbx4xI

Getting Expert

Working under front loop (fl or flo) - insert hook into front loop
Working under back loop (bl or blo)-insert hook from the back
Working around the post of a stitch - Instead of using the loop ,using the stitch in the row below
Front Post double Crochet (fpdc)-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EMbrIYsDrs
Back Post double Crochet (bpdc)-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EMbrIYsDrs
Reverse Single crochet (rev sc)-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jhSbycwfpdo
It is like the sc but done in opposite direction.
Cluster Stitches - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nzW77bU6pm8
Popcorn Stitch(pc st)-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tg58yUidv5M&feature=SeriesPlayList&p=608EA64FF1FB88F7&index=21
Bobble Stitch - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sb7AftjbuuE
Puff Stitch -http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=64IGQOk3cqM&feature=SeriesPlayList&p=608EA64FF1FB88F7
Shell Stitch-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=98F82jigb_Y
V-Stitch -http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yGgUS_ulrk4
Mesh Stitch -http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mBWx_QXfX_M
Picot Stitch -http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vpo9HRO9ryw
Relief Stitch -http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F0LJiEuJjmg
Cluster -shell-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kleJASfxqHA&feature=SeriesPlayList&p=608EA64FF1FB88F7&index=24
Galaxy Stitch -http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5CnFGQCBhSk&feature=related
Afgan or tunisian Stitch - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3EdRuM6I-3w

This Crochet ideas and projects are endless .You should start and then sky is the limit .Start one project with an idea to complete it .

Notice -these are the public links from you-tube .Blogger is not responsible for any erase or harm etc .I am heartly respect there talent and thankful for sharing these videos .

Its my life




Interact with yourself .........see you are a psychologist
Tidy you thought ......see the clear self
' deep breathe  you are in the world..welcome !
Shape  the things that makes you sad ...feel the power 

Mean every word you say.............loud enough
You are who who want to be ..start and spend time in that working 

Love your presence....leave a beautiful mark
Inner engineering do not overhaul ..driving life is simple
Face the fear    open your arms and try-> improve-> fail->get up
Exactly your action meets ...........Wishes do come true

Fling Beyond old and new school swing --INNER ENGINEERING

Yes, I am old school and have no shame in telling that ..Can say I am aged..shhhh

I believe in the freedom of women or men equally.Its not men only or women or I can see them as combination they complete each other could be for --daughter -father, mother- son ,brother -sister ,of course spouse .The respect ,care ,affection and love should be there .

Like wise, the base and approach of relationship is in mind  of the person . we have the stories of successful and unsuccessful relationship  all over the world .Its not a person responsible for the final result both r responsible equally-- blame name shame are common human emotion in a boundary.

We all   had witnessed the stories of our grand parents and parents ,where they met or see  each other after marriage and than develop a bond .There  love is by the gestures,attitude and devotion with a set free demands.. they live little moments  .The sorted work ,fixed routines and untold bond.Where this bond come from  they have no space they have no time they busy in the work which take us minute to do now.Also limited money to shop,dine and splurge .But they have no surprises,no gifts,no attention and lots and lots of responsibilities and  there self choice of bearing them and fulfilling them as they know very well it is satisfying for them.

 With the technology and globalization everything is super fast and outdated in count of  days .Human emotion do change and its perfectly fine until you take a responsibility and keep yourself free from all baggage.Stay satisfied!

Being in live in  or  having a relationship  or one night or  physically attached or porn   this all is okay until you promise yourself that you will not be broken or laid back or complain betrayed  or emotionally shattered STOP reacting like victim.. you have the option and you choose just to be good in eyes of others or trendy or COOL DUDE but cost is way too much more ..you could be COOL DUDE if u follow your heart smartly .

I was geek ..when I was in college but I was smart enough to skip or avoid but learn form a friend who is true to me at the same time --I was true to me ...Simplify life ..


Going n using depression word is a fashion today but it is serious medical condition .If you are feeling low it is not depression ..just understand yourself ..if, it is serious no harm in taking help to the people ..they might laugh on you choose the right person.If nothing than write diary for yourself pray for yourself.. keep working n BE YOUR FAVORITE.


Relation and expectation goes on and on inner engineering is important at the same time just hug and feel the love for yourself you automatically start loving around.



all the best keep working on you

शुक्रवार, 15 जून 2018

पल की महक

बहुत   याद आते है गुजरे पल
 उन पल की महक
 तरोताज़ज़ा बनाये रखते 
 अच्छे पल  अरमानो और सपनो के पल 
ख़ुशी गम पहिये ही है जीवन कोई रोक नहीं पाया 
कभी ज़ख्म बहुत गहरे हो जाते है 
पर जीवन नहीं रुखता  न ही जीना 
आँखों में आँसू  और उदासी को ढूंढने की नाकाम कोशिश करते है 
पर आँखों में हमेशा मायूसी  झांकती 
क्योंकि हर ख्याल  उन ज़ख्मो से भरा होत्ता है 
बाते सिर्फकमी  का एहसास करती है 
कभी यह जख्म ज़ाहिर होते है 
कभी यह  ज़ाहिर नहीं होना चाहते 
ज़ख्म की खबर सब को है 
कभी वो  दिखना चाहते है कभी नहीं 
कम  से कम  ज़ख्म  सहने वालो को
 इतना हक़ तो होना ही चाहिए 
अपने उन पलों  के लिए 
सिर्फ सिर्फ उन ज़ख्म  साथ  
शायद हम दवा नहीं 
लेकिन दर्द की वजह न बने