Thoughts लेबलों वाले संदेश दिखाए जा रहे हैं. सभी संदेश दिखाएं
Thoughts लेबलों वाले संदेश दिखाए जा रहे हैं. सभी संदेश दिखाएं

शुक्रवार, 1 मार्च 2013

Braids n fantasy

Oh my oh my !! this is something  I am waiting to write for long.But it is one of the complex of life ....yes I have it in me and I accept it .

I was in the school of 90's very strict ,type cast and straight not that glamorous school now ...we have the strict rules and we follow ...When I see today's kids in school they are having fun like anything nail paints,hair accessories I am sure rules are there but they have an option to work on it .We have nothing allowed not even heena in hands only red ribbons.Today, the school girls look great ..we look typical boring person.We just wait for the college to do all this.I enjoying watching my college going relatives with full of accessories and new dresses all the time specially the matching hair accessories .. When I see the girls in class with long beautiful hair and nice braids with two velvet ribbons or one at times I got pinched ,I have small hair but  long hairs are  eye tonic for me ;) and find them lucky to have it.My mom was working and it is difficult for her to manage my hairs.I have boy cut to sadhna cut to steps cut that's it whole my life ...I regret it I feel I need more hairs and will not go to barber at all ..I cry but my dad is super dad and convinced me to cut the hairs .... I was surprised by the incident when my school friend with long hairs said she wish to have hair like me ..I m like are you kidding me ..You must have big hairs she said I do not like to look same all the time I want ponytail  or open hair (In my school we cannot have the long hairs without braid)..I was so shocked and feel that no one is happy of what they have ......but I make the khajoor chooti  at times and feel happy :)....

When I am looking for the soul mates there was one more thing I was considering secretly :P as my hair texture is thin I need a person with good hair texture ...sounds funny, but I really looked and get it...
I still have the fascination for it if I had a daughter she must have a long hairs but as it my inner core I love it (i remember agar" kisise ko shidat se chaho toh mushkil se milta hai ").....Still my hair texture is so bad I have splits end but  regular using dove shampoo and  conditioner also cutting on time keeping it till shoulder length ..I am trying ....hope till I die I have good white  hairs ...:)
When I see Disney princess  I m in  love with the hairs few of them have long hairs naturally ...........OMG! this is super liked thing for me..... 

Enjoy writing it and get nostalgic about the class and friends and college mates my fascination n complex  for long hairs ........thanks for the contest ........


http://www.dove.in/en/Products/Hair-Care/Split-Ends-Rescue/Dove-Split-End-Rescue-Shampoo.aspx

गुरुवार, 20 दिसंबर 2012

Silent Speech ’’ – my entry to the GetPublished contest’’

‘' Silent Speech ’’ – my entry to the GetPublished contest’’




   the main protagonists.
  Rahul --who met with an accident went in comma and lost his ability to walk.

The Story 
An introvert person  "Rahul "with an emotional heart -- see his life changing every moment and get stabilize for years to wait for death .He debar to show his right on his feelings,movement,tears smile and speech. Reflection of silence was just a touch away. I touched and a pain ponder more intense then any tornado or tsunami .I had shaken up for my whole life still have goose flesh with a thought. Can relate it why he like the song "kasme vadde pyar". Only one record or the joker movie whole day.Empty eyes are searching for his love.His zest made him live but seems practically he lost loved once. Children --there responsibility,education now his health ..where the finance will go -he is in comma  but alive by heart :each injection made him think the cost rather then the recovery he want to open eyes and run but ..what is stopping him..? . He is not unhappy with his situation but surely the environment and those sympathizing eyes gazing and questioning him why you are alive?
Still the search of his love his wife "karuna "and his question to GOD  why him? In all three months he search for  the intense love of a wife so that he can ignore those eyes .Life was tough he is getting closer to instinct better be dead.


  • What Makes This Story ‘Real’ 
 No matter those eyes are always there for all the handicapped people.May be suffers and there  relatives can feel more intense then anyone .But why ?movies /serial/ life/philosophy all show us many faces but again we do the mistake when we saw handicapped person.Our gazing eyes make the person think why he is alive?
  • Extract from the story
 Was that the real touch of my love ?I think.. yes that was the real touch no one can love and care for me so much...
I am nurse ..nurse ? "He was of my father age .he look like my father I know he was close to death but he seems alive even in this comma stage"
nurse how could she be nurse ..where are you karuna?
Sir if u can hear me-- ur in ICU and critical u are under observtion.All ur family members are waiting for you outside .they are really worried and concern about you 
Oh okay...I am happy to hear it
Sir your survival chances are least 
I can't go yumraj ji I have so many responsibility  ...I can't  zzzzzzzzzzzzzz


PS: If you like my stroy plz promote it @ this link
http://www.indiblogger.in/getpublished/idea/319 TIA 


This is my entry for the HarperCollins–IndiBlogger Get Published contest, which is run with inputs fromYashodhara Lal and HarperCollins India.

गुरुवार, 20 सितंबर 2012

I miss him

......I thought I will be happy I have my so called MY Time but .......Nothing happen like that ..
I was just sitting in front of laptop with a 10,000 thought and face of my son in front of me ...really...I am blank and  even write a single word .Got up and do the cleaning chores but in that even if he ia @home we must be doing this that ...I am missing him..so much ..
Its been 2.9 years+9 mths of togetherness made me nostalgic and feel of emptiness in life.. it is tough. I am obsessed with him .. I reach school before time to pick him .and watch him from the window ...When  entered in the classroom he ran and the smile that he showed up I am a soaked and ...I have tears in my eyes I am missing him
I hate schools when I was kid because of homework getting up early and going there is tough task buses n all.Now I do not want my little one get exhausted ...........I mean I miss him ....I love home schooling I can be best teacher for him totally dedicated and devoted but his father is not yet convinced .
The mommy factor is working now .I am into his life so much he is now saying me bye with smile but i am still a criby mom .........
My all my time is in-vain of just ended up in making stuff for him I love you sweet pie ...(if he is @ home he must be saying I am Advit.)

मंगलवार, 21 अगस्त 2012

AM Turned LM

Marriage marriage Ahem!! ahem!! ahem !!
DO IT (FOR PREVENTION of ACCUSATIONS FOR THE SAKE OF DEARIE )
LAST DAY  SMILE(AS ITS LOL FOR OTHERS)
WONDERFUL COUPLE(COPE UP)
AMAZING DRESS AND JEWELLERY (ALL RENTED)
 WE WILL GIVE YOU SPACE AND TIME (SO THAT WE CAN ENTER AND DO MESS UP)

All things seems different and no matter its love or arranged marriage you are just the one same married person even the same dialogues and  same fight same grudges and same not any more single tag but wann be hot dude ..Present fashion is to keep the divorce letter ready for the first love and find the second love to get understand and them keep going till you are not able to understand ...........its like this because the married person is clumpy,itchy,insecure,cheap,complex,non talented,worst person on earth ever seen by the S(spouse) and incomplete from the perception of  S @the time of fight .During love time this that's why we are married HONEY(so much honey on tongue too )ILU for the time we see each other as love ......
hehehehehe Yes my fiend that's a summary of married life.
But still we are together we love we care and we fight .......
We reminded the best part of life when we met our S and then feel love and care for that moment and just say Alas!! That time is gone .....Reading the mails/sms/ of love times seems to be the most funniest thing ever done :D.
Any ways we get married LM even the insecurities are same might be less as compared to AM .But surely the "TANA" level is the same in both ...
Important thing is marriage not the LM or AM . AM are going to extinct soon as now kids have GF's/BF's .Never tell you kids or children then you have an AM, else you are outdated :( .So watch a movie and plan a love story covert your AM into LM.Keep your kids out of reach from those attend and can explain the details else see some tv serial and get any twist fitted in the AM turned LM.You are all set .I am waiting for a contest where I can post my AM turned LM Watch for it guys . We are so superb happy perfect couple Because of LM(I am trendy ;))


https://www.facebook.com/LoveYaArrange

सोमवार, 20 अगस्त 2012

कलयुग की सीता सतयुग के राम


यही  मेरा मानना है भाई/बहिन  !!! कोई भला माने या बुरा पर यह सच है , राम कल भी वही थे उतने ही -शक्की,दुसरे के लिए भगवन पर बीवी के लिए ...दोस्त ही उनकी बीवी के मदद करते थे ..आज भी वही है ......:P कुछ नहीं बदला है बस ...जब सतयुग सीता थी ...जो दुनिया के सामने बोल नहीं सकती थी वो चुप चाप धरती में समां कर अपनी पवित्रता बता दी/ आज यही बदला है आज की नारी (सीता )  बस आदमी को उसके रूप में न अपना कर हटा देती है /
आज भी सीता माता पिता के घर  बड़े नाज़ से पाली जाती है उससे आज़ादी दी जाती उसकी सोच को घर का हिस्सा बनाया जाता है (यह मेरे मानना है।.) अपने पैरो पर खड़ा  होने देते है सोच दी जाती है अपनी अस्मिता की रक्षा और देखना सीखाया जाता है .वो लड़ पाती  है .शादी में उसकी सोच को तवाजो दी जाती है .लेकिन ......

शादी के बाद राम ही मिलते है... सतयुग वाले ..सबके सामने अपना प्यार का इज़हार आज भी नहीं कर सकते ,न ही अपनी गलती मान  सकते बीवी के सामने ,दूसरो पे बीवी से ज़यादा भरोसा, अपने गहर के अच्छे बुरे के बारे में कुछ नहीं सुन सकते ,अपने विचार आज भी बीवी पे थोपने होते है ,में को हम नहीं बना पते ,हर अहम्  की अड  में लिए अपने निर्णय पे  पछ्तावा आदत होती है ,आज भी अहम में बीवी पैर की जूती ही है  .......बस सीता को आवाज़ दे दी मन वो हमेशा सही नहीं होती ....पर ज़यादातर सही होती है आर परिवार के हित में होती है /

 आज भी दादी नानी सीता राम की जोड़ी बोलती है शादी के बाद .........लेकिन क्या सच में सीता चाहिए जो धरती में समां जाये ? जब मेरे बेटे की शादी होगी तभी पता चलेगा ......वसे मेरी छोटी कोशिश है कलयुगी राम न सीता

वसे किसी को मेरे विचारो से बुरा लगा हो में हाथ जोड़ के शमा चाहती हु ...यह नजरिया है मेरा ....(यह like करने वाली मेरी माँ होगी  )

https://www.facebook.com/LoveYaArrange



https://www.facebook.com/LoveYaArrange

शनिवार, 18 अगस्त 2012

Golden Rules to Start a Bussiness

  • Small Capital Investment   The capital investment should be according to the financial position of besides liabilities we should have some more
  • Work Hard  There is no shortcut of success . Work hard with a real good plan.
  • Prepare you mind   you should have a determination and adman to do it else leave it if yo have one percent doubt in it .Definitely the doubt/dilemma is going to win over you
  • Be Patience Speak less and hear more welcome as many suggestion as you can then sit relax and analyses .writing is the best practice you can do  to analyze your thing.
  • Small Level the level of the business does not depend on your confidence but it depends on the practical viewpoint
  • Do not Dump Your Product that means have a safeguard and planning to 
  • Make your passion your Hobby Hobby as your passion because the zest will make you work more intensely 
  • No Compromise with The Quality  The plan and the quality will not be compromised then only it will be more developed
  • Ready For the Competition  the competition in every field is very tough you will have the infrastructure
  • Work Out For the Quantity of the Product 
  • Intelligent Expenses Handling  The account
  • Be Confident and Clear about the 
  • Professionalism  May be you wish to involve some relatives but the things should be done on the professionalism of it.No matter who the person the policy and term should be clear and straight.
  • Work is work No compromise is needed when it is work time no casual and take it for granted thing should be there.
  • Get Set Go Plan bear and ready to go ahead.
Here are some of the ideas I can suggest : 
  • Hobby Classes 
  • Home food (pickle making, snack supplier in canteen,Masala Powder )
  • Jewelery Making 
  • Craft and art work 
  • Tailoring, stitching  and Embroidery
  •  Teaching Tutor
  • Baby Sitting
  • Writer
  • Iqebana 
  •  STD PCO and Xerox Shop 
  • Bakery 
  • Interior Design 
  • Event Management
  • Agent (Insurance,RD,FD etc)
  • Beauty Parlour and product making 
  • Packaging  
  • Event management
  • Mehandi
Chose yourself What you like and where you wish to go for before choosing just remember you need to make a strong and financially safe plan and mentally ready for all the work forget the word
tired
Never
Impossible
How
Where
When






गुरुवार, 5 जुलाई 2012

Its Fun ..to learn personality number ...

Personality Number 
Add the number in the day of month you are born .
Ex. 28 =2+8=10=1

Life Path Number :- Add your date of  birth
Ex : 28 nov 1979
28+11=39
1+9+7+9 = 26
39+26=65=2


Karma or  Wisdom Number :- Add your name and number
Ex :- R+I+T+U   K+U+L+S+H+R+E+S+T+H+A
         9+9+2+3    2+3+3+1+8+9+5+1+2+8+1
                  66=1+2=3


These are the number for each alphabet ...
1    A        J           S
2    B        K          T
3    C        L          U

4    D        M          V    
5    E        N          W
6    F        O          X

7    G        P          Y
8    H        Q         Z
9    I          R

Personal Year Cycles :- One birthday to today's day
Ex: 28th nov 1979 to today's date

सोमवार, 25 जून 2012

OMG--- Married


OMG the words meanings and sense is same in all the successful marriage relation in the world ...the level of satisfaction and depth of expectation is endless...its not me... its not u its us ..;)
" We are either alone or have the wonderful friend forever.. since the day we r married .. u miss ur life .. ur choice ..u are made for a thing that to be worth or not there is no one to decide for that ,even ur are clear to ur point but u can never explain it to any one ,where he/she is wrong.. having the feel of it, u know u get different opinion ....u start choosing and find there path most probable for u …..But still dialogue are same
I will give one year for the thing to happen the way they should ,I know I could never be understood by him/her ……………I know he do not even try to go for it ……………my work my feelings are not understood by him/her …he/she  has no interest in my interest …………. He/She never understood the time when I cry ………when I need a hand when I need help …we r same in choices but have different taste ……………I know I understand him/her but he always have complaints our intensities r different I m matching it but I can expect same support ………he/she is supportive he/she is very nice .I do not know how I m going to handle this .we r same but still different …………in many ways …………but I know one thing we love them firm the deepest corner of our heart ………."

Life is bundle of surprises ……
The turn u decide change its direction just by one action
U r turned by your own u r mold by ours
U r choices and arguments r use less
The bearing and baring of the part had been given in the particular formats
The style and the perfection have revealed inside one
The diplomacy and the simplicity merge in it
Swiftly fly the wings in the sky u see u r gone
Break the limits and shift to the part ur heart says .
Ur tears r always in vane ,u r work, ur  feelings r always vague
U r smile is fake  ,u r doing have no matter u r no where
Ur standings r exceptional,
Never unleash ur thought they have no respect no hearing
U r presence is ignorant ur bonds might go stronger
Both ends  they r compromising they sacrificing they r working on relation but all fake.....

मंगलवार, 8 नवंबर 2011

Papers carft-- Hobbies





To do with Papers
Greeting Cards
Paper Bags
Jewelry
Envelopes
Occasion Card(photo card)

Different types of Paper
Vellum
Velvet
Embossed
Printed paper
Wrapping
Wall paper
Two tone
Handmade
Photocopies
Corrugated

Other things needed
Scissors
Craft Knife
Ruler
Paper Cutter
Corner Cutters
Punches
Rotary Cutter
Circle
Crimping and Embossing
Bone Folder
Cutting Mat
Adhesives(glue,sticks,dots)
Colouring Medium(Ink, Paint, pencils)


Decorating Material and techniques
Foil(foiling and leafing)
Stencil
Rubber Stamp
Sticker
Beads(Beading)
Buttons
Wire(wiring)
Foam
Fabric paint
Collage
Layering
Foiling
Paper Pricking
Photo Image




शनिवार, 22 अक्टूबर 2011

Painting -make it a Hobby


What you need to start 
Colours (according to the type you wish to use)
Brushes
Sponge
Toothpicks
Stylus
Paper towel
Cotton swabs 
Tracing paper
Tape
Plastic Palette Knife 
Pencil 
Eraser
Sharper
Foam Brushes

Types of Painting 
Glass 
Water
Oil 
Crayons
Fabric
Acrylic 

To prepare for Paint
Enamel
Base 
Surface conditioner 
Retarder 

Tricks 
Strokes
Techniques

How to learn 
Online (youtube , google, blogs,)
Private Class 
Art and craft store Classes 
Circle of friends

रविवार, 2 अक्टूबर 2011

कुछ शब्द छोड़ जाएगा ....मेरी प्रेरणा के लिए ............

मेरी कविता  आजकल बहुत नहीं आ पाती  कभी कभी सोचती हूँ  ऐसा  क्यों है ...मेरे ब्लॉग के लिए यह सही नहीं पर जब बच्चे को अपनी ज़रूरत होती है ...लेकिन फिर भी कुछ चाहिए शायद आप आजाये ...कभी अपने विचारो से ..कभी किसी और बहाने .........पर आप आते रहना मेरे मनोबल को एक सहारा मिलेगा 


जीवन की आपाधापी में खो गयी हु अपनी पहचान पर सुकून  में हूँ 
कभी एक दिने में ३ -४ कविता पिरो लेती थी अब शब्द ग़ुम से हो गए है 
गृहस्थी  के कमजोर दौर से गुजर रही हूँ  
मेरे बच्चे के बढते कदम ज़रूरी हो गए है 
समय पे सब काम के लिए धुरी बन गयी हूँ 
आज नहीं तो कल मुझे समय मिलेगा में आ जाउंगी 
फिर अपने  कोरे कागज़ पे शब्द खुद अंकित होंगे 
पर बच्चे  के बढते  कदम नहीं देख पाऊँगी दोबारा 
अपनी माँ के पास बठने और हर काम समय पे करने पर गर्व था 
आज उनको मुझ पर गर्व होवासी ही  धुरी  बनाना चाहती हूँ 
अभी तो शरुवत है  मंजिल बहुत दूर है ..
शायद कभी तो मिलेंगे कुछ शब्द वही से आ जाउंगी ..
कभी कभी अपने शब्द ले कर...
.. पर आप न आना छोड़ेगा  वही मेरी ताकत होगा ...
कुछ शब्द छोड़ जाएगा ....मेरी प्रेरणा के लिए ............

मंगलवार, 20 सितंबर 2011

Opening a Publication House

What you can publish ..
Diaries, Calenders, School Diary, Copies, Register, Writing Books,Maps, Charts,
Monthly magazines.
Hobby books, Cooking Books, Painting book, Calligraphy, Candle Making, Business Ideas, Crochet, Knitting, Gardening, Cuisines of the world
Time Pass...
 Su-du-ku, Ka-ku-ro, Puzzles, MCQ
General Knowledge..
Latest updates ,monthly updates,annual updates, history geography,Map city wise , Dictionary ,  essay
How to do guides
Teach kids, Financial planning , Make Up, Computer, Geometry, Algebra, Infant,Child Birth, Toddler growth, Indian Culture , Yoga, Ramayana, Mahabharata ,Upanishads, Fashion, Haircut, Nail art
हिंदी मगज़िनेस
त्ताज़ा खबर
कानून अधिकार
पहले प्यार -पहली तमना
सपने -जो हकीकत हुए
दर्द जो सह न गया
स्वस्थ
फ़िल्मी दुनिया
भविष्य कहानियां कविता
कुछ तो लोग कहेंगे
पहलियाँ
पहनावा हमारी परंपरा हमरे रिवाज़
मकेउप
मेरा शौक
हुनर
मेहमान हस्ती
अपना लो
टेक्नो दुनियां
बच्चे पति


शुक्रवार, 9 सितंबर 2011

Wirless

Wife's Agony ------

I melt in your arms
Your  touch make me soothe
Your lips around me make me new
Make a part of your life
I am like brand new
Everyone needs a priority in life
Keep your laptop aside
Look into my eyes ,hear my voice
Take me arms and dance

Keep your phone out of reach
Give Google a break 
doodle around me ...
You tie up with every thing
why its never me ?

Husband answer ---
Its .......just to fulfill your request --to make life wifeless
Wireless*


रविवार, 7 अगस्त 2011

Freindship ...I am sailing and going so far...with lots of sweet memoriess

My best friend I have so many friends but my best friend is my mom my brother and sister and many more .
My first friend is my parents they give me the precious gift any parent can give that is the time and involvement I am so happy and lucky .They sit back and tell my childhood stories my naughtiness my pronunciation ....(pajam into jamana)....much more ........
...then I was introduce to my sister I was so happy to see her Still remember the day when the nurse gave her in my hands ..........I was so happy and still making the happiness of life close to me .............then I got my brother I feed him ceralac .......still remember it those cute and sweet friends...........
My cousins Surabhi a hard core buddy .awesome person... we had fight of life and friends forever.. Shruti, romil, pranshu, rohan, Krati, tanu di, babo and our all chacha, mama ji, tauji all  our friends 
here was a girl called Kavita our maids daughter she was my friend..I use to play with her then shilpi di principal's daughter then   Archana (school peon daughter )..School friends many some family fiends like garima ,Aprita, Asha, sudhir, shalini di ......we  play and have fun to be treasured .......... learn a big lesson of mankind my parents never stop me from playing anyone in limit ...........I am a fight free child 
We moved to a new place I got admission then I have just my classmates(like Payal, Pratibha, ) as  my friend no other except some family friends like Sonal,Ankita ...
I after school I got more friends like Preeti ,Sonia and few they are just there for some time I met with a new circle like Amita,Monika, Tina, Swati, Garima, ...Shalini And much more. My time spend like this and I got the graduation done .
I started working and my life turned into a new way... Being school teacher I met with the memorable students till in my memories  ...Teaching is my blood....... but I never knew by just giving education I get o much love in return till date I still remember my class 4 c now they passed school the best students ever and  still remember the order I call them for attendance ..they are my friends buddies and promoters..My tuition kids are my buddies when there mommies come to me for requesting there every possible things and they share there heart with me ..........they have given me so many things I can't express in words .....I found my self lucky .........
My colleagues few of them like Richa, ketki, amita kiran turn into life long friends .... 

I got married and got new friend ..my Husband and a buddy in making --My son ....
I got new friends too because of my DH and son Like Tanvi,Garima, Poonam, Sapna, Savitha, Priya, Khushi, ....many more ...
I never knew life is like this ..............you move on your friends will follow you ..even I have some good links with my friend's friend or sister's friend ................
May be I forgot to wish you..... but you all are there always ...close to heart and remember you may be ... forgot to tell you ........but just give a message you find me near you ....Thanks from the bottom of my heart to be my friend ..............
Cheers to there  friendship Forever..............Love you all ..

गुरुवार, 7 जुलाई 2011

yes ....I am gadget Addicted

Gadgets --------------ahmmmmmm !!!  I love then any gadget any time  .........
When it was difficult to find out the gadget and tempting in hands of other now every person is holding everything in hands information just a click away .......but still I have the old thing as my first gift and gadget I love then the Walkman  for sure if i take it out today everyone will be amazed and look either to identify or to know what it is if they came to know will laugh at me  ........but I have the guts to carry them so I treasure them............Also we I can write and write with chating getting connecting with everyone
My first gadget was my cd player .......oh!! ya before that was Walkman... yes .........how many of you remember it .....then it was video game then mobile phone , I bough it on my own nokia 3400, I still have it and love it more then my Iphone .. Lenaovo laptop was my other addition and 80gb Apple iPod .....camera .......dell vostro .....was added...bluray 60''tv home theater . I am in heaven .... now waiting :P for kindle and I pad .............xbox  then camcorder to play with my son
Also  after marriage I m so use to for kitchen gadget too hand blender, mixer, coffee maker,food processor , bread maker , ice cream maker, cake decoration, slicer, gas, oven, microwave ........................
Wow !!feeling good about it ....I feel .. I am gadget addict I can't move without it ............

When I pack my bags I have to keep lot of wires charges are always there ..lot of storage things are there

शनिवार, 7 मई 2011

Mother's Day


















Hey Ma
I never need to tell you how great you are .I am so lucky to be daughter I never knew how simply you and papa taught us the  important values  incorporate in our lives things  .
  • When my friend lies to there parents but we never need to .How much space you have given us . i can share each and everything with you what a. comfort level you have given us.
  • You are working and you managed all things so well even in joint family without any conflicts.
  • The way you taught the big things with so much simplicity 
  • How nicely !! you take care of our needs ..just provide us before we say anything
  • During exams you keep us positive energetic and  good 
  • Always give your shoulders ,eyes and ears when we need ..........
  • The toughest time after papa's accident .....you are there ..
  • You always find an easy way to get the things 
  • The endless talent that you have ....
  • Your awesome quick and complete cooking ........
  • Your way of dressing style and attitude ....... mesmerizing 
  • Simplicity, style, values, face challenges ...................endless as list continues forever 
  • The way you managed wonderfully well alone in my marriage
  • All my frustrations, love, shout ,anger ........you handle so well 
The bond of family the cosiness, comfort in talking to each other without lying or hesitation healthy neat discussion ...really makes lot of difference in life .Transparency in relationship and gossip. This all is so small to show......how much you matter for us ...how much we love and respect you ...thanks a lot for being such a lovely mother ..............hugs hugs hugs
Miss you MA...............
always need you...you are our confidence and proud...............
Cheers to my 3 mother ...( mom,  mil , gmil)

गुरुवार, 14 अप्रैल 2011

Being Married



































Insecurities
All  became an  insecure person .some admit it ..if any person says I am not them i feel that person must be insensitive ....

 Most of us become insecure of losing relationship by any ways and any relation -- even if it is my wallet..my kitchen stuff ..my clothes ..my accessories ..the way I live  ... off course the person who is not near me .......sound funny but that truth ...(miss parents when i am with hubby vice versa )..friend phone calls .. exercise... parlor ...  regular parties ...Shopping ...making and additional  chores to regular work   ...makeup ..dressing well.. sensible utilization of groceries that we  bought ...Kids care and new activities....quality family time ...healthy talks ...gossips ..
Any change in any of the above thing make all really think about it and at time insomnia(if it is .relationship ) ..


Dependencies 
We want to cook what hubby wants .....OH REALLY !!!

Healthy.... oily food ,veggies can't cook this much .....blah blah !!

Final result -- what we plan to cook.........I guess so ..:P

Shopping -- We just say its waste what your buying...... I continue shopping for the thing we already  have (shoes,purses accessories, kids clothes  )
A list + 10 extra things per 30 items (forget 2 -3 items)
Collect so many coupons .which at time not find when needed
Dying to go for grocery check the whole shop even I want to buy one item .
Pile up the sale item ......at times really not needed(my bad)
Go in sale and grab the waste (many times )
For one things go to thousands of shops
Shop regularly and say i have done nothing this month .
Love to return clothes
Love to window shop the expensive store ..but when hubby ask to buy then say ..NO not worth it ........U r so used to spend money you work so hard...
If hubby do not take suggestion before buying then will criticizes for higher price forever...... we guess(want to smile at me )

Fights-- Any time --any where--- forever Young 
Forget the main issue go to buried once upon a time  fights ...endless and insensible at times
We do not know why ...we want he should detect my real  reason of anger  (do detectives have good life..? )
Simply sit and mostly moods are opposites one want to relax and other want to work out that day for sure .
When I want to eat spicy he want some junk ...


But really good to be married and led a regular married life joyful life eventful life ..with loads of smile and much more

शनिवार, 1 जनवरी 2011

नववर्ष की हार्दिक शुभकामना २०११

नववर्ष की हार्दिक शुभकामना  २०११

आते जाते पल में झपकते  साल को हर बार देखते है
अच्छी यादें  संजो लेते है बुरी से कुछ सीख लेते है
मन में भगवान और इस तन को कुछ लोगो  के काम में आये एक जतन कर लेते है
सुख शांति और समर्धि रहे
देश आगे बड़े और जीवन के कार्य सुचारू चले और क्या मांगू में भगवान से
सदबुधि  दे !!