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सोमवार, 18 मार्च 2013

Idiya



An idea can change life .I feel it was joke but I in deep corner I believe in it .. if you real passion for it is not a joke .
When I was in my early teenage in 1990's I saw a dream of the old lady tortured by her kids,I got up and that dream come 3 day in a row and this was followed by a dream of combination of the so called ditched by there own family.This dream grow big but still in my heart-- may be in future I can complete it with this hope I  rejuvenated it everyday and will be fulfilled one day .I am taking time because right now this is the time for growing and giving to the family.I am going to live 80 yrs(my gut feeling ;)) I will be free at 50 yrs I have 30 yrs left and definitely I have the capital to start it for sure .I do not know what gives me this confidence for this .
A place which has the flow the flow of money,person, resources and service.
The biggest problem of World is to be alone the time we realize its always too late ..We are young we can  live alone but as we grow old we need family ........when we grow we need family...when we in trouble we need family....I am sure I will start.. Will start from school as I am best at it .:) so far  I know myself

  • Make a school
  • Tuition center 
  • Paid Professional Teaching School
  • Theme Farm (rent for marriage and parties)
  • Kid's castle
  • Travel (Travel packages across the country)
  • Women Professional training center 
  • Service old age home
  • Orphanage 
  • Special school for special needs 
  • Mentally or neurologically challenge person


First, I need to make the money so school is the best to start for .In evening I can open the training center with the major professional centers .The building for the old age couple need life and space and relaxation at that age they can stay there as long as they want I need to divide the building in dependent, independent and medically serious person .Same thing I need to do with the orphanage age wise and need type.The merger of start and end of life going to be lively when helped by the youth .

Travel, theme farm and professional training school will give me money and rest will be on it' own.I know what I am writing seems to be awesome but practically it is not ...Legally,politically and socially the success of it is not a day thing.Just waiting for the day when I understand and keep me mature and strong to keep it up and work I cannot afford it to fail .
I know there are many positive and negative part of it but the infrastructure need to be unbeatable and working.Even if I can make up to one level the flow will be gained on its own.........
I cannot stop walking on slippery surface just because the fear to fall but sure want to wear the right shoes........

I am sure this Idea will change my life
http://www.isb.edu/idiya/
Amen




रविवार, 17 मार्च 2013

Infants and teaching

The child is born he will smile in a month or two he will respond to nearby environment .It is the start of world from knowing nothing you need to explore them as much as u can.First six month parents n baby need time to get along with each you love it more and more .
  • Smile,hugs,snuggle,these are the main base and touch therapy.
  • Rhyme, dance, song ,they love it
  • Make a routine according to the comfort of family
  • Gas,teething, diaper and hunger are the main reason for being upset
  • Parents need to give a quality time like talking facial expression,
  • Activites-- hi five , peekaboo , flying kiss, shake hands , thanks, of course no , bye bye, see u, hug n kiss
  • Rhymes Twinkle twinkle , baa baa, five little monkey , I love you,
  • Few animals n there sound
  • Toys Should be low Sound and safe like Soft toys, Tether, Hardcover books, Playmate jungle or gym, Mirror ,
  • Outdoor parks Slides n swing for infants,Grip balance, sight, hold confidence 
  • Do's and don't need to understood sincerely and cannot be compromised @ any cost.
  • The growth chart and alertness is must  over possession and dispossession both are not good for baby they have to face the world the upper limit and lower limit of each milestone is there all kids are different and there growth rate differs so patience is the key .
  • learn the basic if baby is cranky you can't be do not mess up with it u will always regret 
  • This is a temporary phase all this get reduce and you need to cherish in the best possible way .
  • Reading and joining an online  group will help you to share the good and bad also the wonderful suggestion soothe you .
  • No matter child is plan or unplanned you love n care should not be effected by this
  • Go for good stroller walk. keep yourself paced up .cook good 
  • When feeling low look and hold the baby ur out of all odds
  • Buy good flash cards moslt related to things around and let the baby get introduced to world.
  • The story time in mall n library and book store are best for the baby and you to meet and make a group.
  • Play dates and outing are good options too.
  • Do not thinks its a baby the catching power and working power is far more then you think leave breast feeding,thumb sucking,bottles are few thing that are really hard to work with if not worked up at right time .
  • Baby safe home and danger alert learning is time to start.


शुक्रवार, 15 मार्च 2013

Educational Activities





बुधवार, 13 मार्च 2013

Kids Outdoor Activities

I am not a super mom I get tried and let my kids sit in the best activity he wish for .Also I take rest but to get away from the guilt of bring a lazy mommy .I just do the small activity which I can manage whole day n always.I do not drive but I cannot restrict my DS from enjoying .Then I realize,unknowingly  I taught him many things :P.If anyone will say just sit for 2 hrs and teach your kid that to be toddler. definitely I am out ..with a big bulk of anger.
  • Count number and letter on the way 
  • Collect and paste the leaves.
  • make nest from the collected sticks
  • Traffic lights 
  • Billing and payment 
  • Opposites
  •  Big tree and small shrubs/bushes/flower
  • Animals there food and protection 
  • Physical jog, walk, hop,climb,
  • yoga body parts
  • Bus rides



 Feeding ducks
 Camping n Hiking
Ride Car
 Shadow Fun
 Bus Ride

 Store Events
Story time
Swimming
Riding Bike


मंगलवार, 12 मार्च 2013

Teaching (12-36mths )

No matter what we are knowingly and unknowingly teaching our kid the pattern and methodology to and prepare to leave in the world.Its not teaching do not get irritate kids learn and you will not realize it... few kids learn early and few late...just stick and enjoy it.I try to write in the order the kids can learn you can do it.


English - Alphabets,Opposites,colors,people who help,phonics,write,read
Maths- 123,Shapes,months in a year ,days in a weeks,signs,Clock,count,tables,add, subtract,multiply,side in shapes
Reading- Picture books,
Science- Animals,there sounds,babies,there homes,body parts,planets,seasons,plants parts,photosynthesis,seeds,butterfly life cycle,organs(sense,major functions ),telescope,Animal habitat(water,pet,wild) type,fruits,veggies,rainbow
Social -Eating,cleaning,playing,sleeping,name, name of family members n place they live
Crafts-touch n feel,color, paste,fold,cut,arrange,play dough,beads,stickers,Sand play,draw,
Physical -hop,jump,walk,talk,dance,sports
Social Science- Place,significance,Transport,Type of transport, Dress
Pretend and play -Doctor set,visits,Musical instruments ,doodle
Regional language-


Teaching Rhyme

Sing -dance- action and make it fun once kid catch it.Introduce the meaning of rhyme and things will work out.Few kids catch faster and the other take time just do as your kid demand and enjoy do not panic.Live there smile.............

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  • Old mac Donald
  • Chubby Cheeks 
  • Baa Baa 
  • Humtpy dumpty 
  • Ding dong bells
  • Jack and jill 
  • 1-2  buckle my shoe 
  • Teddy bear 
  • We are happy family 
  • Hush little baby 
  • Wheels of the bus 
  • Roll over 
  • If you are happy and you know it 
  • Five little monkey 
  • Hot cross buns 
  • Abc song 
  • googly woogly 
  • Jingle bell
  • Hickory dickory dock 
  • Row row 
  • Incy wicy
  • Here he comes
  • London Bridge
  • Bingo verses nemo 
  • Pussy cat 
  • Rain Rain
  • Mary had a little lamb 
  • Family Finger 
  • Early to bed 
  • Twinkle Twinkle 
  • Sun  




सोमवार, 11 मार्च 2013

Stay cool try different.



Keep growing the circle and make them busy creatively can spend time outside 3 hours even but you need to keep there stomach full .
Mom who fill there stomach while playing and they finish it in minutes rather then spending 1hr on the dinning table its quick fix they come home and sleep good .No cranky no more hungry no more television.

Local group --Make a group of kids of same age collect same time and make it fun in all ways .You do not feel like exhausted or drained its fun you came up with awesome ideas and fun tips also fun time .No driving or hassles.
Lunch out --This help me at times I take him out.He is hungry and I serve him with the wraps which I carry and he enjoy.
Let  him explore -There are times when you loose and panic when he open shoes or make him dirty,put hands in nose or embrace or challenge your up-bring but he is a kid just let him do it instead of panic just sit and talk nicely.
Love --There are times when kid is out of control ,you need be strong and make some rules and drive but at times you need to be flexible with rules and timings and love except tantrums .
Rules -They just give direction and avoid the confusion.You are first time mom you may do something that do not work out accept and discuss your problems with the friends and family and learn adopt the good things.Read books forum and much more.you are a good mom .
Ruin - I love naughty hop and jumpy kids .This is also a part of being child let one partner do the job .
Possessiveness - Chill kid has to live in the world ultimately.You need to show the bad part too to avoid surprise and more curiosity for the unnecessarily protection it will make me the thing unpleasant for you the other day and kid may believe that you lie .Answering the question in a age appropriate manner will help you.
Public kissing scene ,private parts(need to teach there names and must not be touched by anyone).The preschool talking and there curiosity you cannot help it just need to find out to make it out
Enjoy the period -it's just a phase love it live it and enjoy it whole life......................




शुक्रवार, 8 मार्च 2013

Women's Day

All are the days of women .But we celebrate and give gratitude and thanks to all the women in the world for what they did . It is just not the word or wish it is by heart acceptance that you can give respect and position of women no matter what.If you do not feel like that then you challenge it by your saying rest day we need not to respect n much more . No one is forcing  you to do so .
But, also challenge mother's day  that she is just a mother for one day rest days she is nothing .
A day is made to take a resolution you will do specific things at that time .
Love and respect is what women needs you cannot catgorise it as mother ,sister or some bar dancer or slut or anything like that they are ultimately women .We women do bitch about it .So a day when women need to feel special about her .

You should have guts  to face and tell the men no matter father,brother or a friend to respect it .
Can you stop your father when talking to your mother in high pitch or someone who is staring your sister with an intention of harassment ?May be you can... most of you can ........
Can you accept and respect your girl friend if she spend a night with you.....?
Can you accept your wife as she is ..?
Can you help HIV women to make her single day good?
Can you tell you mom how much you like to watch sexy women but can't see your wife for it .?
You are in the dilemma of relationship and just being me making you harsh enough to just give an insightful  testimony of women ...
Can you marry your  daughter with  this person  mentality..?
 Anyways I am not judging anything just think why anything with women is so questionable?
I feel may be those people (men n women ) are self obsessed  and never meet the good side of person .

I am not explaining but I am showing you the another part of it .I am not being rebellious or protective but I respect human being and the women who did exceptionally good.I am lucky to have  my mother,my mil,my grand mil ,my sisters ,also thanks to men in life who respect for being what I am ..if not then even I am okay :)..
Men and women are parallel not the rivals. If both spread love n respect life is wonderful ..

गुरुवार, 7 मार्च 2013

Toys

The toy making company are doing all possible things to work on it .The research and more liking and age appropriate and kid's friendly .The age is explained on everything but still I feel all children have there requirement. Also kids have there choice also, we have choices for them .
All parents want to have the best toys for kids they should have but not flooded.It should be like they have some but that keep them really busy we need to shuffle the toys every 10-15 days .If you have a great friend you can share and exchange the toys too.
All toys have the special developmental purpose ..develop it for your kids they grow so fast you can just memorize it and you forgot the challenge but this will grow you as a person.Love it and like it


  • Cognitive brain acceptance and working preference . In detail how child respond to things taught
  • Fine motor hands movement
  • Gross motor walk sit balance ride
  • Communication language n talking
  • Social n emotional the environment friendly,people friendly able to handle the failure as well as success


Enjoy you childhood once more, you will never get it again ...


Teaching 0-24 mths

Leaning is hit and trial .Some kids do something fast  the other do other thing fast .Every kids work according to age ,family environment,country ,schedule.Few things just go with the flow .If child response you get excited  and work.Few kids needs promotion few mom need promotion..few kids promote mom...Just crossing 24mths the ability to learn things get really fast and quick .

  • Rhymes with action 
  • Crayon coloring
  • Abc song 
  • 123 
  • Puzzles 
  • Animal sounds 
  • Zoo trip 
  • Parks and story time 
  •  Dad  Time 
  •  Physical activities 
  • Directional pretend and play  -doctor set
  • Gardening
  • beads 
  • Pipe cleaners 
  • Eyes 

Tantanrums(0-20mths)

We think that only toddler can throw the tantrums..but the age is reduce in this case too .After they start walking the challenge of tantrums is there be ready and deal with it

Tantrums 
  • Rolling on floor 
  • Shouting
  • Biting,spiting,hitting 
  • Throwing things 
  •  Phases of growth

Deal
  • Before talking time out so that u both can calm down
  • Hug n kiss the baby
  • Talk to them like a big person look in there eyes and tell them to look into your eyes 
  • Spouse should work as a team .
  • No harsh talking or hands on or bulging eyes(imagine you are talking to you)
  • Do not talk in front of any person 
  • Make a spot for time out 
  • Divert (if it is a phase )
  •  Do not panic or overreact if it is public place
  • They develop some habits of biting,hair pulling,spitting,rolling on floor,hitting
  • Sometimes ignorance,and time out work in it.
  • If you do as they say after tantrum you are  calling for big trouble until they are sick
  • If they are doing the mistakes again and again then stop taking them to the same place
  • Phase continue for a month to 2 month or so ...keep trying there favorite things 
  • Pacify Whisper some positive sound in there ear (I love you,you are good,om )make it a game it works 
     
Key 
Patience, Patience,patience  
Smile
Ignorance
Accpetance
Stay cool 
Always apologize for improper behavior of your kids the mother of other child feel good  ;)..




Infants

This is 21st century infants are damn smart .I imagine myself to the well discipline infant (as my mom says..but I do not share ..I feel I was stupid ).

The love and care of kids start as they are in the world we want to make everything  special we decorate the room,gifts,party ,portrait n much more we forgot the teaching ...I am nuts teaching an infant ....yes ..u read it  right ..I know the infan just eat(drink) sleep poo,pee what to teach .?..Being a new parent  is overwhelming and must be shown to the world what u can do for the baby ..but it's better to keep the balance .....so that u can do it for your whole life .....Making life the way u wish for..I know u cannot do it for 10 -15days but after you feel good keep the ball in your court to be less stressed and eventful whole life
  • Make schedule for bathing,feeding,papa time,Massage time,story time
  • Pee  and poo is mostly set
  • An outing time 
  • Previous handy notes for the baby initial problems
  • Sleep in their crib
  • Nap time
  • Think good and feed it in the baby
  • Touch therapy works ..you will believe it

Avoid 
  • Habit of sleeping in you hands or on you 
  • Change in daily schedule 
  • The light change 
  • Diaper changing time 
  • If you are tired do not stress
  • no hesitation in sharing work
  • Target baby for your stress
Teach 
  • Less stressful in panic situations
  • Plan,balance  and organize 
  • Not to be comparitive 
  • Notes on handy medicine
  • Ways to be happier @ home
  • Overcome being guilty

You are mom no one has the right the decide you are good or best .Every kid is different and you need to just be mom and believe in you make wonder on you and your child.
 Stay happy n moomy

शुक्रवार, 1 मार्च 2013

Aloof

In site of aloofness I find me more and more lost
just come with my out here and there
Bring it once come back and see me
There are so many horrible ways to do
Justify the decision that God made for me
The Maggy out of pot and the pondering and wondering heart
Fails many times to come out of it
There are many greedy places where I find many person
with lot of expectations
The never ending greed of person make him distracted him from path
I am sad from heart not for the one but for many reasons
Me being a person lost in work and world for someone
That someone is busy to take a charge
the newness and kind of many ways have been ended
Just the ashes of the burnt relation that is seen
Even pretend to be happy become so difficult
The few lies in heart make you carry the relationship
no matter how hard it is for u 
The endless senseless fight without reason arguments
The heavy heart of love ..
The question on being  living
The perception of so called healthy and happy
The loss of respect understanding and warmth
What can move the relation ?
The social pressure is moving the relation on ...
The sight of being bound 
The lesson of being together






Braids n fantasy

Oh my oh my !! this is something  I am waiting to write for long.But it is one of the complex of life ....yes I have it in me and I accept it .

I was in the school of 90's very strict ,type cast and straight not that glamorous school now ...we have the strict rules and we follow ...When I see today's kids in school they are having fun like anything nail paints,hair accessories I am sure rules are there but they have an option to work on it .We have nothing allowed not even heena in hands only red ribbons.Today, the school girls look great ..we look typical boring person.We just wait for the college to do all this.I enjoying watching my college going relatives with full of accessories and new dresses all the time specially the matching hair accessories .. When I see the girls in class with long beautiful hair and nice braids with two velvet ribbons or one at times I got pinched ,I have small hair but  long hairs are  eye tonic for me ;) and find them lucky to have it.My mom was working and it is difficult for her to manage my hairs.I have boy cut to sadhna cut to steps cut that's it whole my life ...I regret it I feel I need more hairs and will not go to barber at all ..I cry but my dad is super dad and convinced me to cut the hairs .... I was surprised by the incident when my school friend with long hairs said she wish to have hair like me ..I m like are you kidding me ..You must have big hairs she said I do not like to look same all the time I want ponytail  or open hair (In my school we cannot have the long hairs without braid)..I was so shocked and feel that no one is happy of what they have ......but I make the khajoor chooti  at times and feel happy :)....

When I am looking for the soul mates there was one more thing I was considering secretly :P as my hair texture is thin I need a person with good hair texture ...sounds funny, but I really looked and get it...
I still have the fascination for it if I had a daughter she must have a long hairs but as it my inner core I love it (i remember agar" kisise ko shidat se chaho toh mushkil se milta hai ").....Still my hair texture is so bad I have splits end but  regular using dove shampoo and  conditioner also cutting on time keeping it till shoulder length ..I am trying ....hope till I die I have good white  hairs ...:)
When I see Disney princess  I m in  love with the hairs few of them have long hairs naturally ...........OMG! this is super liked thing for me..... 

Enjoy writing it and get nostalgic about the class and friends and college mates my fascination n complex  for long hairs ........thanks for the contest ........


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